Dear prospective global health warrior,
 With the amount of financial aid and celebrity attention pouring towards global health, we get caught up in the romantic ideal of going to help the less fortunate.  However, semantics and personal experiences may tell a different story.  To help means to assist someone who is of lesser strength than you are.  When helping, you are the one in control, the one who is “above” the other because of your situation in life.  More importantly, you are conscious of the aid you’re providing, of its value.  When it’s time to go home from your summer, you can immediately distance yourself and resume drinking Starbuck’s lattes because “you did your part”.  I am not saying that helping doesn’t aid the less fortunate – it most certainly does. But unfortunately, the impact of “helping out” may last about as long as your flight back home because of the manner in which you treat this experience mentally.
To serve means to think of every other human soul on this earth as an equal and that we are all connected.  It is to engulf the thinking that borders and colors are a concept for the weak of mind to contemplate upon.  It means that you are indebted to serve the other simply because he or she is suffering.  In the process of serving, no debt is incurred by your fellow citizen who just happened to be born in an unfortunate situation.  Serving pulls at your soul, and your ego will achieve no gain from this.  Instead of feeling as if you’ve put together a difficult contraption, it will feel more like you simply picked something up and placed it back on the shelf where it belongs.  Instead of seeing their pain, you feel their pain.  When you serve, you can return home to the states where we are fortunate, but you still have trouble sleeping some nights, thinking of what your brothers and sisters in other parts of the world may be going through that night.  Helping may take brains and brawn, but serving takes your mind, body, and soul and provides it to those who may need it. Similar but not equal.
Fellow colleagues, the next time we think of giving our time to someone, whether it be abroad or down the street, let’s try serving and see what change this may bring.  Not only will we benefit those needing assistance but the effect on our own psyche and the manner in which we serve will also be enhanced.

5 comments:
Adnan,
You make valid points and I totally agree with you as far as the preception we should take when reaching out to those less foruntate than us. But I'll admit, I am one of those individuals who fall within the pool of "helping others" rather than "serving others" merely because of the mindset I go in to when reaching out. I understand that we should preceive our "help" in a different way so that we are "serving" those in need...but do you think its more than just the mindset that we need to change? Is it not human nature to instinctively think that you are "helping" someone out when they don't have as much as you and are not as fortunate as you? I would add that it is also important to really detach yourself on materialistic means to really connect and truly "serve" those in need. This doesn't mean become a sadu or anything of that nature, but in our daily lives we should change certain things we do to truly have an effect.
-ZpayalZ
payal,
THANKS FOR COMMENTING. you will receive a lovely gift in the mail for being the first contestant.
i totally agree with you on the point that it's human nature to "help". i think that's what makes helping more elementary even, but to like rise above your pride, power, etc would be to conquer that human nature and truly serve. it's definitely not easy and i point at myself first as a helper. but volunteering/helping enough, i think we start seeing/feeling the difference.
as far as a sadu thing goes, i think it's safer to be a sadu, but i think others will take issue. like can you have the new rolls royce and truly serve? we can look at bill and melinda gates and make an argument that you can be both.
note: a sadu is a hindi word used to describe a religious ascetic/wise person
hey cutie,
this is ur secret admirer..i need a new post i dont know how much longer i can go without hearing your wise words! eeeeee!
-smooches-
Nice post, Adnan! :)
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